I had always thought it was odd that I liked this kind of music, since I assumed it was for young guys, and I am not a guy...and not young...and then on this site I see at least half the posts are from women, so what is the appeal? I stumbled on the music at a time of grief and loss, so I guess it resonated with that, and was a distraction as well.Or maybe just one of those intense interests for a time.