Sun, Sep 8, 2013 at 12:24 AM By: JoleneInChains

Wow... sitting here listening to Daddy. I've never felt so damn connected to a band member. I tried telling my adoptive mother about my adoptive father repeatedly trying to touch me, making sexual advances towards me, she said she didn't believe me. I'm just sitting here crying.

  1. DerdriueBurden avatar

    On Wed, Nov 6, 2013 at 4:43 PM, DerdriueBurden said:

    I get what you're trying to say.

  2. JoleneInChains avatar

    On Sun, Sep 8, 2013 at 11:44 PM, JoleneInChains said:

    I don't think I've ever wanted to hug a musician so much. Not that I am any different from any other fan with a story. I'm sure there are thousands if not millions of other people who feel the same way, that they relate to JD or Munky or the other band members. That doesn't change the fact that I just want to be able to meet JD, hell, anyone who has been molested and just apologize for what happened to them.

    JD was considered weird for being the way he was when he was younger, I want to bet that being molested fucked him up bad and that's probably a good chunk of why he was so different. That one fucking person caused so much pain in his life. I don't want to seem like I'm trying to speak for him, I'm just speculating.

  3. MissKorn avatar

    On Sun, Sep 8, 2013 at 12:56 PM, MissKorn said:

    first time i heard that song i also cried because of JD (when i heard him cry) and because i had a kind of flash about what happened to me when i was a child. A thing i thought i had forgotten but it's not the case. And now I have difficulties to forget even now, at 42. The only person who believe me is my boyfriend but at the beginning of our story he didn't. We met and talked to the person who hurt me, a person who is in my family, a very very very very close one. This shitty story will always stay in my mind even if i talked, it will stay in a corner of my head because i've never talked about that to my parents and i really cant because i'm sure they didn't believe me, especially my mother. This song, Daddy, i heard it just once but i really can't listen to it again ...some stuff are really hard to tell and we dont know when the time will come. As far as i'm concerned the bad story that happened to me will disappear with me. And i'll be in peace. it's hard to live with a thing we want to say and we can' boyfriend believes me but now he know my story and it's very hard for him as well..

  4. avangardeify avatar

    On Sun, Sep 8, 2013 at 10:17 AM, avangardeify said:

    you should talk to someone who believes you! it's not right and you shouldn't be crying, you should be safe! xxx

  5. SAFLove avatar

    On Sun, Sep 8, 2013 at 1:13 AM, SAFLove said:

    awwww, how nice, you know, i once thaought his dad raped him,,and i viewd my dad likesitutains of abuse..and just that feeling of distance from pain..until i read in a news article that its about his dad not belieiving him.. well i still connect on the song thocause my dad sucks....thers no love there..not much not in the right places..andeven tho he was raped by his baby sitter. i understand the way he wrote the words..and i love jd for expressing that...

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